LEADERSHIP as per my experience.

"Leadership begins with dreaming up your ideas, acting on them.Being excellent on the ideas , even when no one is watching grows self respect and personal honor.Good leader is one who is also a good follower. Leaders know what their achievements look like and each day ,step by step they go towards that.It might require lot of sacrifices,handling pain and being inspired all the time."

 

Seeking Happiness

Do you think we usually have a word called selfless LOVE? I think no. Every person stays, makes relationships, expectations, compromises, forgives, fights, and finally thinks loves the other person as selfless love. NO, we do all the things or stay with the particular person through life seeking happiness from the loved ones. Once we get to know that we are never happy or get any kind of satisfaction with that person we just walk out of that relationship. We always hope that the situations get better looking forward. Once we are sure that nothing changes we start to detach from that person emotionally, psychologically, and slowly physically. So there could be no selfless LOVE in human beings. Each person lives to live his own life thinking that we love. To accept that we all are SELFISH and live for ourselves thinking that we are doing something great for others.

Sometimes a small heated conversation can be a lesson to you.

When the conversations with our beloved ones really can be a lesson to be learned. There could be enough chances to scan our thinking, need any improvements after scanning to make our mindset healthy. once you start ignoring the smaller things which really don't matter to you and relentlessly focusing on what you really want from life make you and your job really great.

Family goal

There are never-ending issues or conversations that take worse situations in our families. We have kind of heated situations due to expectations for each other. Instead of working on solving these issues, every family can have common goals towards themselves and socially. This can get them together, build great communication with each other. More of all brings love and respect for each other.

Being ME

I was just reading an article reading this. I had a very small role play with my elder daughter.

She does imitate me very nicely. She always asks permission to every think. I m not that kind and after few minutes I said it too hard for me and just gave up. I said I am PERFECT being myself.

This is what exactly we experience. Being myself is what more matters to me than living someone else's life. I always get fulfillment, satisfied and joy when I am with true me. Living my life with my basic values. Values which I value more than anything. I want to indulge in myself and come out authentic me all the time. I never regret at the end not for being myself.

Every fruit we buy can be plant ahead

I have learned this from my kids. They are really energetic. They always collect all the seeds of fruits whatever they eat and plant it somewhere near the lake of in park so that it grows as a tree. This is really inspiring. They even go to fruit sellers and request them for old fruits which are of no use to sell, collect and then plant. I really encourage such awareness in this generation.

Enjoy pain than regret

The Enjoy the pain to discipline me than to regret myself. Pain is a gift I give myself to keep my life on track. I would like to pain myself sweating out than regretting it. Prefer healthy stuff than others for me. Will give my 100 percent than regretting it in the end.

Learning experience

My today’s learning is based on my experience. Every second and every incident says something instantly either to change or adopt new of me. Sometimes even without my knowledge. All it takes us is towards my happiness or to a better version of myself.

Definitely learning is an endless task to me.